So many people are building their lives around what they have already become used to. And what I mean by that is that they are limiting their future based solely on what they know at this moment. May I ask you, Are you in a job or a lifestyle that you are not...
The biggest reason I had to escape from my career and chase the entrepreneurial journey was that I thought valued freedom. What I discovered is that this was somewhat a surface desire and had no idea how that very desire was a huge challenge in scaling a successful business!
The phrase that can be often heard is “I have too much on my plate”. What research suggests is that, if we take those same people and reduce their workload it often doesn’t resolve the underlying problem.
Today’s message is specifically for those of you that have created a career job, a life that you are pretty happy with, and now are ready to take it to the next level! It’s about really creating your ultimate ideal average day that is full of meaning and purpose and that is built around creating a legacy.
The function of safe problems is that the brain creates stories to keep us safe from unresolved hurt, shame, or fears that are still very real inside of us. So when these deep feelings are too much to bear, to express, and experience, the brain has created a new story of why we cannot do something which we can consciously accept. These are the ‘safe problems’.
I began to ask myself ‘Who is it that I need to become in order to have the lifestyle that I want to live’? The problem was, I had no idea what kind of lifestyle I wanted to live! How do we ever achieve anything intentional if we don’t even know what it is or how it looks and feels like??
From years of running out of time, and feeling like the world is about to end – to not only becoming much calmer, more present, and being able to enjoy the journey that I am on but also loving where I am at right now. The result, I have found, is being able to live consciously at the cause of my life rather than on autopilot and at the effect of everything that happens to me.
If we knew we had total control over our reality, what beliefs would we require to ensure that this was possible?…. Is this a fact? Can this be proven? Is it an absolute truth? No of course not. As with any belief, it is up for debate and personal perspective. But in times like these, I love the key phrase “what if I acted as if it were true…”?
Before we can start creating any intentional change we must first know about ourselves and what WE care about, and what we are prepared to do and commit to. When you know what is important to you, making a decision is easy.
Today I am sharing such an important exercise. It's one that is truly a foundational block in being able to create intentional happiness in life. It's called Ideal Average Day. The reason why being super clear on how our ideal average day is is that it provides depth...
Trigger, Operate, Test, Exit At the core of anything we do, we all have basic principles that we follow. There is a formula or strategy that we run to get the resulting outcome. This is either done with conscious intention or moved to the autopilot method after having...
A life driven by magical thinking guided by external events is giving up personal responsibility. And without personal responsibility, how can we ever take charge of our lives and create it in the way we want to experience it?
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We are walking the talk of creating our own ideal lifestyle. This means for us we are location independent are provide all services via Zoom & other digital methods. It also means that our time zones will vary from time to time.